Making Their Wedding a Politics-Free Zone

“In my experience, those uncomfortable political discussions tend to break out when you’re just sitting and drinking at a table,” she said. (She will not use a sign because it doesn’t match her décor.)

Caitlin New, 27, even joked that if she caught anyone talking about politics, they would “get X’s on their hands, so they can’t get drinks from the bar.” Her wedding is scheduled for Orlando, Fla., the day before Election Day, her 10-year anniversary with her fiancé.

However, some dissenters who watched Ms. Chronowski’s TikTok video said that they would not invite anybody who did not share their morals and values. Logann Watchorn, a 19-year-old 911 operator from Cleveland, said he had severed ties with several family members who didn’t share his views. “I just can’t imagine having people that don’t support the same morals as me in my wedding,” he said.

Still, some couples are welcoming political conversation during their nuptials. Klaudia Forgacova, 30, said she was considering making her wedding toast political. She posts videos on TikTok about how to participate in the election process, which she said she hoped were informative, inviting and respectful.

“I think that when people think political talk is always combative, or it’s not the right time or place, I feel like that’s often a misconception — so when I’m thinking about my toast, I’m thinking about how weddings and growing families are just inherently political,” said Ms. Forgacova, who will marry in October at her parents’ home in Waco, Texas. “How can I touch on that in a way that comes from love, in a way that comes from growing our understanding, without necessarily making it seem like I’m targeting anybody in particular?”

Though many of her guests don’t share her political beliefs, and she has had many heated political conversations, she is confident there won’t be any fights at her wedding.